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Is This Really My Life ?


If you are feeling like “Is this really my life?” than this post is for you. Don’t worry you are not the only person who feels the same. There are thousands of people out there in the world. Do you feel like why I have so many problems in my life?  .Always remember one thing “If you don’t have problems in your life than I am sure you are not living life.”  Life is what you make of it.

There are moments when you ask God “Why me?” But according to me you should be thankful to him because he tried you. There are thousands of people like you in the world but he chose you. There is something unique in you. So now on wards when you face problems and you feel like “Why me?” Just remember above lines and say “Try me.” . If you are not convinced yet than let me explain it it a different way. If you don’t face any problems/challenges and you don’t respond well to those challenges than you will die like an ordinary person. No one will remember you. Is it okay with you? or on the other end you want yourself to be remembered by next generation.

Still not convinced: Think of the time when you got success . It can be your school/university grade ,extra curricular activities , promotion or it can be anything else. Now ask yourself. When you got success, have you asked “Why me?”.  Answer would be “No” Right !!! Than why are you afraid now?

Related post: Turn Your Fear into Curiosity.

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Ray Of Hope For Life


Life can be compared to our eyes. When our eyes are in bright part for little time and then if we move to dark room then we cannot see anything.  But if we spent some time in the same dark room then we can see everything and find our ways through it. Similarly in our life when we have spent more time in our good(bright) days and suddenly we have to  face the bad(dark) days we cannot see forward(future). But if have hope then after some time we can find our ways through it and can give our best. So the real key to success is HOPE. I want to say

“Always have faith in three things for getting success.

1. Family

2. God

3. The most important is yourself.”

In your dark days control your mind because

“ Our mind is our great friend , if we control it. But our mind is our greatest enemy ,if it controls us.”

Unless you are an army officer, you can get better results by requests than you can by orders.


Armies spend endless hours training people to follow orders without question. It’s an essential quality in a soldier. In everyday life, however, things don’t work that way. Business, political, and civic leaders have learned that ordinary people will perform exceptional tasks when they are asked-not ordered-to do so. Even when you are managing other people, you will achieve far more if you convert every order to a request. Introductory phrases such as, “Would you mind . . .” or “Could I ask your assistance in . . .” or the always effective “Please . . .” will ensure success far more often than intimidating those who work for you. And when you need help from those whose paychecks you do not control, you will find them far more responsive to requests than to orders.